|Sirian Starseed Tarot- Six of Crystals (Pentacles)|
There is an ongoing situation with a person that is full of conflict, and it is not a situation I can just walk away from. It has to be worked out. My question is, How can I best approach the situation with this person? My answer is the Six of Crystals, which, being the highest vibration of Earth energy, are equivalent to Pentacles in this deck.
In the imagery, I instantly relate to the dark haired woman on the left as myself, and since I see the scales I know my role in this situation is to stay in balance. No one else in this situation is able to view it impartially, and I am not able to either, entirely, but I come the closest, probably, of the participants.
I see that I need to give this person as much as I expect them to give me, because that is how balance happens. The reaching hands to the figure I am identifying with make me feel the other person wants me to give the most in the situation, and since this is the suit that deals with physical things, I know that means money as well as time and resources. I am inclined to give those things, because I identify readily with this persons' particular set of problems, and I have deep and sometimes painful empathy for most people, but some people see the kind of giving I am more than willing to do as weakness.
The empty hands also indicate to me that this person feels I have taken something from them, and while I could not live with myself if I believed that I had, each persons' perception IS their reality, so if this person feels I have taken something from them, in their world, I have. The correlation is my reality is that I feel I have done them no wrong, so that is how it is in my world. Even though it logically seems both statements can't be true, we aren't dealing with logic. We are dealing with feelings, which are volatile, so both statements CAN be true, and in this case probably are.
By their words, I know this person sees this situation as one with clear winners and losers, but the balance of the scales indicates that is not the case, and their perception of win/lose is a faulty one. I need to be careful to not let their faulty perception affect my reality, so that I keep in mind BALANCE is what we have been seeking all along, not a "win".
|Sirian Starseed Tarot- Seeker of Crystals (Pentacles)|
Since I use the Shadow Card as some information I have put far away from myself to keep from dealing with it, and I see the traditional Page of Pentacles as the ardent student, I know that I need to make sure all my ducks are in a row when dealing with this person, that research has been done, and that I am fully prepared by being knowledgeable, first and foremost, and having my physical self (with my poor health) and surroundings ready.
I apologize for the ambiguity, but as much as they don't believe this, I am NOT an enemy to this person and I very much want to respect their privacy and boundaries, but this weighs so heavily on my mind all the cards I was pulling dealt with this anyway, so I needed to deal with it. As to whether this deep and spiritual deck answers more mundane questions well, I have a resounding, "Yes!"